The Conspirituality Report
Talking to Children About Conspirituality
Keep it simple. Frame bad news with good. Create something to work with.
Text of a Conspirituality Podcast Bonus episode.
I’m father to two inquisitive children, boys, 5 and turning 9. They hear me in the study on Zoom or the phone interviewing people. They hear their parents discussing the news of the world, and conspirituality. They ask questions about what they hear.
My policy is to always answer as completely as I can, making my best guess about how detailed to be based on age appropriateness. I feel that if they’re old enough to ask, they’ve earned the respect of a generous answer.
When my mother was dying last winter, I was clear about her leukaemia, describing the biology of it to the best of my ability, why they couldn’t visit her, especially during the pandemic and the immune-compromising quality of chemotherapy, what treatments she was getting and how they were supposed to help, and why she eventually chose to go home to die.
The subject matter bounced from bargaining to existentialism, chemistry to memories, to what pain is like, to whether it will happen to us, how rare leukaemia is, to what it means to be dead — really dead. I appreciate that…
